Everything We Do Is Perverse

We get up and turn on the news. If we have a spouse, we ask him or her how he or she is. We read books about other people doing things we may… Continue reading

Obscenity And Cat Calling Do Not Lead To Sexual Violence

I have been paying attention to the, “Me,Too” movement and have been voicing my frustrations online and with others. First of all, most activism involves tweaking of laws and making deals that do… Continue reading

There Is The Truth And What Really Happened In Bed

The stories keep coming. The news is filled with tales of icky sexual encounters and ones that almost were. There are women talking about things that cannot be verified and that sound bad,… Continue reading

I Am Having Trouble Defining Trauma, Sexual Harassment, and Power

We are inundated with news stories about everything from political scandals to mass shootings to what famous person has transgressed with whom. No one teaches us to take things at face value or… Continue reading

It Really Is All Good

The NSA are perverts just like me.  Nazis hate, like I do.  Kim Jong Un is a Dominant to his slaves.  Women are whores.  Voyeurism is normal.  I still adore men.  When I… Continue reading

Back In Los Angeles

Without going into much detail, I moved back to Los Angeles from the Bay Area of California, because I got tired of the same old shit happening when I protested. There is simply… Continue reading

We Are Free To Choose

Day in and day out, I obsess over how to defend porn, online sex, and sex worker rights.  Despite my distaste for all American values, war, and the ignorance I know is not… Continue reading

Oakland And Sex Education

I am originally from Los Angeles, was raised by an Ivy League educated woman who worked on Kennedy’s campaign, and I was taught that thinking critically was paramount. I have been disgusted by… Continue reading

Porn Kills Love Is Bullshit

I was riding along in the bus looking up at a strange sign, and when I read it, I rolled my eyes and laughed a bit. One of the wonderful things I learned… Continue reading

One Night Stands, Toys, And Women’s Pleasure

When I was younger, I had sex with men, and they had orgasms, but I did not. I got a bit older, and when I had spontaneous sex, I got my pussy sucked,… Continue reading